I have been considering several ideas from multiple gowns, and here is what I'll do:
I wil take this fabric, which is a beaded ivory lace, and wear it over an ivory silk (which when combined look like this). I will use this dress pattern. In concept, the dress should look something like this.

I will have one attendant, Jane Waks, as my Matron of Honor. She will be wearing a dress of this style made of beautiful purple and ivory silks. If should end up looking something like this.